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Friday
2
December
Calling Hours
8:30 am - 10:30 am
Friday, December 2, 2016
Mulryan Funeral Home
725 Hebron Ave.
Glastonbury, Connecticut, United States
Friday
2
December
Mass of Christian Burial
11:00 am
Friday, December 2, 2016
St. Paul Church
2577 Main St.
Glastonbury, Connecticut, United States
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Llnda Spanilo posted a condolence
Friday, December 2, 2016
Dear Lisa, Steve and family.
I was so saddened to learn of your father passing. He certainly was a special person and will forever live in your heart. My prayers to you and your family for strength during this difficult time. God bless you all.
Linda
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Friday, December 2, 2016
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Kristin Glatte lit a candle
Thursday, December 1, 2016
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Kristin Glatte posted a condolence
Thursday, December 1, 2016
What I will always remember most about my dad is that he was not one to sit still. Dad loved his job at Otis and he loved working on his home and yard. Dad loved to fix and build things. He built bookcases, shelves, fireplace mantles, stone walls and decks. When my parents built their house he had the ground wire run from the street to the house and did the rest of the wiring himself. When we first moved in there were no doors or wood trim inside. Dad painstakingly cut the wood, sanded, stained and installed it over time. Dad never worried about how long it took him to finish a project so long as it was done right.
My dad was someone who genuinely wanted to help others. He was always loaning out his tools to neighbors and family. When it snowed he would get up extra early to take my sister and I to work and would be there at the end of the day to take us home. One time he drove out to Windsor to pick me up during an unexpectedly bad storm and it took us three hours to get home. Many times after a storm he would pack up his snow blower and drive to my grandparent's home to help them plow.
My most favorite memories are the simple things like Saturdays together as a family after my niece, Rosalie, was born. Dad would sometimes drive with me to pick her up and then we would take her out to get a muffin for breakfast or he would cook something special for her at home. Often my dad would curl up with her on the couch and read stories to her, sit on the floor to play blocks or take her for a walk to pick up the mail.
Lisa and I have been blessed with an incredible father. We will cherish the memories we have of him forever.
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Michael Esteves posted a condolence
Thursday, December 1, 2016
Each one of us will reach a point in our lives where Raymond was two weeks ago where we will all be forced to take stock of our lives and the legacy we leave behind.
My earliest memories of Raymond was his love of music. He played the tuba in school and was fascinated with percussion. He saved some money from working in the tobacco fields in the summer and bought a premium stereo and turntable. He would play his music over and over. Bands like Boston, the Almond Brothers, Deep Purple, and ZZ Top before anyone new who they were. While he was working I used to go into his bedroom and listen to those records (sorry Ray never got around to telling you that). Ray was a connoisseur of good music and his love and appreciation of that rubbed off on me.
We also shared a life time passion for skiing. Ray always pushed my talents to the limits. When I started to ski with him it had to be Killington Vermont or bust. So I went from skiing at Powder Ridge in Middlefield, CT to the blue and black diamond trails of the Vermont green mountains. Without that coaching and his nurturing I would not be the skier I am today.
I think it goes without saying that both Ray and I were "Tool Men". We shared a passion for all things mechanical and reveled in our ability to fix things or visually see the fruits of our labor from something we built from scratch. I will deeply miss my number one tool consultant and the countless phone hours consulting each other on home projects.
Most importantly Ray was a great dad and husband. Their were many things on his bucket list that he rightly put off to provide for a good home, a quality neighborhood for his children to grow up in, their education, and a work life balance to be there for his family. Ray was a consummate perfectionist in all that he did wether it be work or projects around the house. He didn't accept mediocrity and always had a sound moral compass two attributes that are soaring lacking in the world today.
Lastly, Ray was unselfish. I was supposed to be the stem cell donor for Ray if he ever achieved remission. I was a 10 out 10 perfect match. Unfortunately that day never came and we subsequently determined that I had colon cancer. Ray called me three times per week, offered rides to NY, and shared lessons learned from his cancer experience. In a twist of fate I was intended to save his life but at the end day he may have ended up saving mine. I will be forever great full brother.
So Ray's legacy is a life well lived, and that is a good thing, the very best of things, and no good thing ever dies. I will be with you always. Rest In Peace!
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Thursday, December 1, 2016
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Jay Wanczyk posted a condolence
Thursday, December 1, 2016
So Sorry for your loss Debbie and your family I use to be your neighbor I lived in the farm house up from you again my prayers are out too you and family
Jay Wanczyk
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Dave and Darlene Goodson posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 30, 2016
Ray's great smile and warm personality come to mind first, when we think of the 20+ years we have shared as neighbors.
The numerous end-of-the-driveway conversations between the 2 husbands (Ray and Dave), discussing the simple things in life, cares of the world and the tasks at hand - lawns and leaves - are treasured.
"What a guy" when it came to care and pride in home and property. We are certain these signature traits were present in all facets of Ray's life: at home, at work and wherever he went.
Ray's beautiful family is a celebration of his life.
We will miss Ray.
Our heartfelt sympathy for Debbie, Lisa and Kristin and their families
Dave & Darlene Goodson
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Firmo (Ray) Noiva posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 30, 2016
Jack and Hilda and family: My deepest condolences on your loss. I wish you the best as you weather this storm. I"m sorry my health doesn't permit me to attend Ray's services, but my prayers are with you and your family.
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David Dearborn posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 30, 2016
Very sorry to learn of Ray's passing and sending condolences to the entire family. I remember 'the farm' area mentioned by one of the mourners in this remembrance, as I was a tenant of Jack and Hilda many years ago. A wonderful family who always treated us well and even hosted us 'young guys' for a nice home-cooked dinner at times. Over the years, I exchanged greetings with Ray as he brought his expertise to maintain the elevator system at 25 Sigourney Street in Hartford, a major state government office building. Ray had the responsibility of protecting our safety and, boy, those elevators always ran smoothly. A very nice man who always had a smile and good word. Jack, Hilda, Michael, Debbie and all of the family -- please accept my deepest respect and condolences for your loss. --David
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Samantha Danaher (Binette) posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
It must've been 2006 when I met Ray. I was in college and I had a project involving photographing Hartford. My dad, Dan Binette, worked with Ray at Otis and hooked me up. Ray took me up onto the roof of the gold building so that I could take pictures from above. He was by far one of the nicest most down to earth people I ever had the pleasure of spending time with. He will surely be missed and definitely remembered. You don't forget a guy like Ray. Heaven has gained an amazing angel.
All my love.
-Sam
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Maryse Capobianco posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
Debbie, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I recently lost my husband to cancer too and understand what you are going through. My condolences to you and your family. Maryse
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Roy Deschaine posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
Kristin I'm so sorry for your loss your Dad was a very nice man. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family R.I.P. Ray
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Maria and Tony Salvador posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
Debbie and family.
We are saddened by your loss. Raymond was a very special and unique person. He had an honest and sincere smile that brightened everyone's day.
Love
Maria and Tony
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Tony Salvador posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
Raymond. I'm remembering the farm. The apple trees in your yard that we used to climb. The big sand hill that left sand in my hair for a week. You are a special person. I wish we had spent more time together. I will miss you.
Love
Cousin Tony
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Lucille Gioello lit a candle
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
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Lucille Gioello posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
TRULY, NO WORDS WOULD BE ADEQUATE TO NOTE THE IMPORTANT IMPACT RAYMOND HAD ON LIVES OF THOSE AROUND HIM, BE IT FAMILY, FRIENDS OR CO-WORKERS
RAY WAS UNIQUE...ONE OF A KIND...YES, KIND, CONSIDERATE, CARING, GENEROUS, LOVING AND SO MUCH MORE.
HOW HE LOVED LIFE AND THOSE AROUND HIM! RAY WAS THE VERY BEST HUSBAND, DAD, COUSIN (TO ME).
I RECALL THE VISIT MY LATE MOM AND I MADE TO THEIR FIRST HOUSE AND HOW ELATED AND PROUD HE AND DEBBIE WERE TO ACCOMPLISH SUCH A FEAT...IT IMPRESSED ME SO THAT THE KITCHEN CHANDELIER PURCHASED WITH MOM’S HOUSEWARMING GIFT WAY BACK THEN WAS BROUGHT TO THEIR BEAUTIFUL NEWER HOME IN EAST HAMPTON....WITH ALL OF RAY’S SPECIAL TOUCHES AND INNOVATIONS!!
WHAT A LOSS TO ALL WHO KNEW AND LOVED RAY...THINGS JUST DON’T SEEM FAIR BUT PERHAPS THE ONLY THING TO THING IS THAT GOD NEEDED ANOTHER ANGEL, HANDYMAN AND HELPER.
MY SINCEREST SYMPATHY TO DEBBIE, THE GIRLS AND THE ENTIRE ESTEVES FAMILY...RAY WILL BE IN MY HEART AND PRAYERS FOREVER.
LOVINGLY, COUSIN LUCILLE (MARQUES GIOELLO)
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Sherry Smith posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
Kristin and family, I am so sorry for you loss. Kristin, I know what kind of father he was just based on what a incredible daughter he raised and I imagine the loss you must feel. I also just realized that Ray was the man I would joke around with at The Hartford as he was working on the elevators in the Tower. He had a great sense of humor and was such a nice guy. Please know that your friends at The Hartford are sending healing thoughts to you and your family.
Love & Light, Sherry
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David P. watson,Sr. Sneads Ferry, NC posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
I knew Ray from the elevator business and as a fine upstanding member of Local 91.
Rest in Peace Ray
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Adam DiPace posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
Thank you Ray for your kindnes and the knowledge you shared with me and for helping me when i needed it the most .thank you from me and my family .forever in my prayers
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Stefani Carroll posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
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Annette posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
My condolences to each of you. Imagine living in a world free of sickness, suffering and death. It is possible. God's word assures us of such a world. We can trust in his word for he is able to fulfilled whatever he promises.
Isaiah 33:24
Revelation 21:3-5
Isaiah 55:11
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Chrystal and Justin Goodson posted a condolence
Monday, November 28, 2016
Ray was such a kind and giving man. My husband Justin grew up across the street and Kristin is one of my best friends, so I have many fond memories of Ray growing up. My favorite memory was when we got married, Kristin's parents opened their home to me and my bridal party so we could get ready for the big day. Ray was like family- so excited for our happy day, supplying snacks and taking photos of Kristin, me and the bridal party. He was such a sweet man and he will be missed.
Kristin, Debbie, Lisa, Rose and family- I am so sorry for your family's loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. Much love.
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Betty Moore posted a condolence
Monday, November 28, 2016
So sorry for your loss. I lived across the street on Colchester ave. My daughter Kelly used to come over and have tea parties with Kristin, while I had tea with Debbie. Please accept my sincerest condolences.
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Who We Are:
Mulryan Funeral Home is family owned and operated and has been serving Glastonbury and surrounding communities for many years.
Our Location:
725 Hebron Ave.
Glastonbury, CT
Phone: 860-652-4436